Desire Masterclass

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School of Sexual Wellness · Coming soon

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Where did my desire go?

You love your life. You may love your partner. You just do not want sex the way you used to. You are not broken, and you are very far from alone.

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Why this one

Most women never get to ask this out loud.

Not of a friend, because it feels like admitting something. Not of a partner, because it lands as a verdict on them. And rarely of a doctor, because ten minutes is not long enough and it never seems like the right use of the appointment.

So the question gets carried privately, for years, alongside a quiet assumption that the answer is you.

It is not. Desire has a mechanism, and the mechanism has several moving parts. Ninety minutes is enough to work out which of them is yours.

What we will cover

Four parts, ninety minutes.

The bodyHormonal change, sleep, medication and comfort. Including which symptoms settle on their own and which never do.
Part one
The brainStress, mood, body image, and why a tired mind switches desire off before you have decided anything.
Part two
The relationshipSpontaneous and responsive desire, rejection, and what happens when one of you wants sex more than the other.
Part three
What nextWhat you can work on yourself, and which kind of professional to see for the parts you cannot.
Part four

The third part is the one most people come for and the one least often explained. Spontaneous desire, the kind that arrives unprompted, becomes far less common with age. Responsive desire, which arrives after arousal rather than before it, takes over. If you have been waiting to feel like it first, you may be waiting for a signal your body no longer sends in that order.

Who it is for

  • Women in their late thirties, forties and fifties whose desire has changed.
  • Single or partnered. Either is fine and neither is assumed.
  • Before, during or after menopause.
  • Anyone told this is just their age who did not find that a satisfying answer.

What it is not

  • Not medical advice, and not a replacement for your doctor.
  • Not therapy. Hope is an educator and author rather than a clinician.
  • Not a sales webinar with ten minutes of content and eighty of pitch.
  • Not filmed at your end. Cameras stay off for attendees and questions can be anonymous.
Who hosts it

Hope.

Founder of the School of Sexual Wellness and author of RESIDUE.

An educator rather than a clinician, which is stated on every page here for the same reason it is stated on this one. If guests join, waitlist members hear their names first.

Be first in

The date, the guests and the founding price.

Waitlist members get all three before anyone else, and founding pricing on a live masterclass is the one time it will be cheapest.

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Before you join

Answered plainly.

When is it?
There is no date yet, and we would rather not invent one. The waitlist hears the moment there is one, along with the founding price.
Will it be recorded?
The masterclass is recorded and the recording goes to everyone registered. You are not recorded. Cameras stay off for attendees and questions can be asked anonymously.
What will it cost?
Not set yet. Waitlist members get founding pricing, which will be the lowest it is offered at.
Is this for me if I am single?
Yes. Three of the four parts are about your own body and mind, and the third works whether or not there is someone else in the picture.
Is this just a long advertisement?
No. Ninety minutes of content with time for questions. There will be something you can buy afterwards if you want it, and you will not have to sit through a pitch to get the material.
What if I cannot make it live?
The recording goes to everyone registered, whether you attend or not.

This masterclass is education. It is not medical advice, does not diagnose anything, and does not replace your doctor.

While you wait

Three of these are free and finished.

Find your stagePerimenopause, menopause and postmenopause need different things. What perimenopause doesThe mechanism, and why the pattern goes unnamed for years. Before your appointmentTwo pages to take to your doctor. Free and printable. The Midlife courseEight modules, forty three lessons, self paced. $297.
Where did my desire go?

The question most women carry privately for years.

Ninety minutes, live, and an honest answer. Join the waitlist and hear the date first.

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